By Epiphany
The phrase “everything is not for everyone” has become cliché — tossed around in conversation, often without much reflection. But when you sit with it, really sit with it, there’s a deeper wisdom tucked in between the words.
It’s not just about the journey you’re on or the blessings you’re receiving. Sometimes, it’s about the information we share — the unfiltered pieces of our vision, our plans, our process — and who we hand those sacred things to.
Do we overshare?
Offer too much of ourselves to those who haven’t earned that access?
Reveal our next move before it’s had time to root?
It doesn’t mean you’re wrong for being open. It means discernment is your new form of protection.
Because the truth is: people might know you, but that doesn’t mean they see you — not your path, not your assignment, not your future. And that disconnect? That unfamiliarity with your becoming? It can scare them. Or worse — shift the energy around your growth before it even has a chance to bloom.
I’ve been there.
Shared prematurely.
Celebrated too soon.
Felt the sting of disappointment when what should’ve been met with joy was instead clouded by confusion or critique.
But I’ve also learned:
Everything sacred isn’t meant to be shouted.
Some things thrive best in silence.
Some moves are made in stillness.
And some revelations are too tender to carry public weight until they’re fully grown.
The Resolve
Before you share that new idea…
Before you post the next win or whisper your next step…
Pause.
Ask yourself:
- Do I need to share this right now?
- Who is this for?
- Will sharing serve me — or simply satisfy the moment?
Because sometimes, keeping it to yourself isn’t secrecy.
It’s strategy.
It’s self-respect.
It’s sacred protection.
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